Leahs Cafe

Today is our third anniversary for our civil marriage registration. We have been married for three years!!

It has been a rough three years. It’s enough trouble that the person you are married to is still taking his own sweet time to grow up, what more with all this long separation. Suffice to say that we have been separated longer than we were together in the last three years!

What to do with a marriage that doesn’t exist? We are still married mainly because we believe marriage is for life, but I have a feeling that I am just wasting my life with a procrastinator in every sense.

Consider how long the migration process is going to take, and how long it takes for him to put his acts together, it will probably be better to postpone the move to IL. Since the business is fold up completely and the sale has finalized, I would have all the time to do what I want in this coming two months!

As he rather spend the money allocated for the air tickets on buying toys, I won’t feel guilty spending my money on Vegas vacations or discount Disney World tickets. I am sure visiting Disneyland and have a good time with Mickey and Minnie without him is more fun that waiting for him to do what he is supposed to do. It’s too stressful to deal with a procrastinator, should just go somewhere for a vacation and forget about the stress. Must do it after recovering from the surgery!!

Was taking a shower when the phone rang on Saturday morning. My feet were probably wet and soapy when I ran down the stairs. And the results of my carelessness: a swelling hand with torn ligament!

It will take about a week to heal! A bit inconvenient to have only one hand to move and pack stuffs. Yesterday was the last day I have to clear out the center. I got the Indian guys next door to move some of the boxes into the car. The boxes are going to stay inside the car till my hand heals. Driving with one hand and have the right hand crossed over to shift the gear was challenging.